Toward Right Relationship with Native Peoples
The Toward Right Relationship Project (TRR) offers the following presentations to schools, universities, churches, and civic organizations throughout the United States. Native and non-Native facilitators have given these presentations in some 200 communities by request. Click on the titles for more information about each presentation. To request presentations, please contact paulaRpalmer(at)gmail(dot)com.
This 2-hour experiential workshop traces the historic and ongoing impacts of the Doctrine of Discovery, the 15th-century justification for European subjugation of non-Christian peoples. Our goal is to raise our level of knowledge and concern about these impacts, recognize them in ourselves and our institutions, and explore how we can begin to take actions toward right relationship with Native peoples.
2- “Re-Discovering America: Understanding Colonialization”– for middle and high school students
Through this 1-hour program, students symbolically experience the colonization of North America as the Native peoples and the European colonists experienced it. They hear the voices of Indigenous leaders and European popes, monarchs, presidents, generals, and Western historians as the story unfolds. The exercise is followed by a response period, when students share what they learned, how they feel, and what they think about the reality of Native peoples in our society today. Supplementary materials for teachers are provided.
3- “Two Rivers Film and Discussion” for all
This 1-hour documentary film tells the story of a rural community in Washington state that undertook some significant actions toward reconciliation with the area’s Indigenous peoples. Following the film, a facilitated discussion will focus on your community: Who are the Native peoples who have lived and are now living on the land that you call home? How can you learn your region’s real history? What would right relationship with Native peoples look like in your community? What steps can you start taking in that direction?
4- “The Quaker Indian Boarding Schools: Facing our History and Ourselves”– for Churches
Native American organizations are asking all the churches to learn about their roles in the forced assimilation of Native children by means of Indian boarding schools. As Pendle Hill’s 2016 Cadbury Scholar, Paula Palmer researched the Quaker Indian Boarding Schools. For more information click here. Watch a Video of a slide presentation on the Quaker Indian Boarding Schools, and an interview with Jerilyn DeCoteau, former chair of the National Native American Boarding School Healing Coalition.
The Toward Right Relationship project collaborates with Native Americans and other organizations to create and/or support meaningful processes for truth, justice, reconciliation, and healing. The Boulder Meeting established a restricted fund to enable the Toward Right Relationship project to accept donations in support of this work. Funds are used for materials and supplies; travel to conferences and to facilitate workshops and offer trainings; publications; social media development and management; project administration; and project staff support. Learn more here and see link at bottom to make a tax-deductible donation.
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Words by Friends: Paula Palmer
Friends General Conference e-Newsletter, November 2017
By Marta Rusek
Doables These are some actions that can be important steps on the path toward building right relationship with Native Americans and all Indigenous Peoples. Please add your own ideas, and then do at least one of these actions soon.
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Right Relationship Boulder - Do you live in the Boulder Valley? Join us!
Join Right Relationship Boulder We are Native and non-Native people working with local governments and organizations to help all Boulder Valley residents learn about the Native peoples who lived here historically and those who live here today.
After traveling to Oklahoma to visit the Southern Arapaho tribal leaders, and to the Wind River Indian Reservation to visit the Northern Arapaho, Paula Palmer, Ava Hamilton (Arapaho), and Jerilyn DeCoteau (Turtle Mountain Chippewa) presented the following report and PowerPoint presentation to the City of Boulder’s Human Relations Commission.
Right Relationship Boulder’s report to Human Relations Commission Dec 11, 2017
Powerpoint Slide Presentation
Recommended: Watch the documentary film, “Two Rivers,” and host a discussion in your community. What would right relationship with Native Peoples look like? How can you start taking steps in that direction?
Want to hear the Arapaho language and learn some words in it? The Northern Arapaho are teaching it with an app that can be accessed at the Google or Apple store. It’s free of charge, and you only have to make sure you have enough storage on your android device or smart phone. Just type in Arapaho and the Arapaho flag icon appears. Click on it and install.
For your calendars: Upcoming Programs For more information about these public programs and to register to attend, please contact paulaRpalmer(at)gmail(dot)com
Saturday, October 6: “Roots of Injustice, Seeds of Change: Toward Right Relationship with Native Peoples”, Quaker Meeting, Saratoga, NY
October 6-8: City of Boulder’s celebration of Indigenous Peoples Day; more details soon!
Friday, October 12, 6:30-9 pm, “Two Rivers” film/discussion at The Collective Community Arts Center, 21 N. Public Road, Lafayette CO.
Saturday, October 13, “Roots of Injustice, Seeds of Change: Toward Right Relationship with Native Peoples” and “Two Rivers” film/discussion. Episcopal Diocese of Iowa, Iowa City, Iowa.
Quaker Indian Boarding Schools - How Friends can learn about this history and support healing in Native communities
During her tenure as Pendle Hill’s 2015 Cadbury Scholar, Toward Right Relationship project director Paula Palmer conducted research on the role Quakers played in conceptualizing, promoting, and carrying out the forced assimilation policies of the last two centuries. This policy was succinctly expressed by Merrill E. Gates in 1891:
“We are going to conquer the Indians by a standing army of school teachers.”
The Toward Right Relationship Project has produced a Video, which includes two presentations:
1- “The Indian Boarding Schools and Pathways to Healing” an interview with Jerilyn DeCoteau, chair, National National Native American Boarding School Healing Coalition (10 minutes)
2- “The Quaker Indian Boarding Schools: Facing our History and Ourselves” a slide presentation by Paula Palmer (56 minutes)
If you would like to receive a DVD of this video, please send a check for $18 (to cover costs of reproduction, postage and handling) to “Boulder Friends Meeting,” and in the memo line write “DVD.” Mail your check to:
1603 Cottonwood Dr., Unit N
Louisville CO 80027.
Read Paula Palmer’s article, “The Quaker Indian Boarding Schools: Facing our History and Ourselves,” in
Listen to an interview with Paula Palmer about the Toward Right Relationship with Native Peoples workshops and her research on the Quaker Indian Boarding Schools, on Northern Spirit Radio.
“First Light” is a 13-minute video about Maine’s Truth and Reconciliation Commission, which concluded that Maine’s child welfare system committed cultural genocide against the Wabanaki people. The Wabanaki people are engaged in healing processes.See: https://vimeo.
TRR Project Documents - More info, resources, flyers, etc.
Toward Right Relationship Project Documents
Letter to Faith Communities about Workshop
Toward Right Relationship Workshop Facilitators Bios
Roots of Injustice, Seeds of Change – Workshop Description
Roots of Injustice, Seeds of Change – Participant Feedback
Roots of Injustice, Seeds of Change – General Flyer
Where and When: A Complete Listing of Toward Right Relationship Programs Past and Future
Walter Echo -Hawk’s Five Steps to Healing
Re-Discovering America flyer
Paula Palmer’s Traveling Minute from Boulder Friends Meeting
“Healing Our Nation’s Oldest Wounds,” by Paula Palmer, Western Friend, Jan./Feb. 2014
How to Host a TRR Workshop
How You Can Support the Toward Right Relationship Project
Toward Right Relationship Project Reports
Links to Related Resources and Websites
A new documentary film, “The Doctrine of Discovery: Unmasking the Domination Code” is available from Dakota 38 Plus 2 Productions. See: http://www.38plus2productions.com/
“For Indigenous Nations to Live, Colonial Mentalities Must Die“ Envisioning a just future beyond the Indian Act starts with recognizing that the root of the problem we are facing is not one of laws or policies, of funding disparities or even of governmental capacities at any level. In this short article, First Nations writer Taiaiake Alfred states concisely and precisely how Settler people must change ourselves and our institutions in order for Native peoples to survive and thrive. The parallels between his Canadian context and the US are obvious.
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